Sunday, March 16, 2008

im trying to make you understand

that the lack of passion you feel,

is because i am trying to forbid myself from loving you
*
My hands are tied
My body bruised
She's got me with
Nothing to win and
Nothing left to lose
.
And you give yourself away
And you give yourself away
And you give...
And you give...
And you give yourself away
.
I can't live with or without you
I can't live with or without you
I can't live...
I can't live with or without you
U2

3 comments:

V said...

Don't forbid yourself from loving anyone. Just try to love more people at the same time. Or open yourself to others.
Perhaps this is a good solution.
I tried this when the girl I was obsessed with tried to push me away due to feeling uncomfortable. She didn't feel safe and comfortable with me yet because I was still a complete stranger to her and her friends.
Now things are changing. She's beginning to open herself again to me after making myself attractive to her friends. Jealousy can be a very powerful force. She's about ready to chase me back.

V said...

Stop chasing and learn to flirt instead.
Pretend indifference sometimes. It will drive the other crazy. Even obsessive, if you do it right.
Be unpredictable.
Give a little and step back.

V said...

Or just dump him. There are million others out there.
Dump him before he dumps you. This will make him become obsessed with you.
It's a matter of insecurity. People don't like being rejected.