Wednesday, March 18, 2009

You aren't invincible,
If you are scared of me

You aren't in love
If you aren't happy.

And you aren't my friend
If you ignore me.

16 comments:

V said...

Love is not attaching and detaching.
Love is simply there. Except when there is possessiveness, neediness, jealousy, tension, or hate.

Leila said...

I can tick more than one of those for this situation, but I do not love the person to whom I refer.

V said...

Love is not pleasure, experience, or remembrance.

Leila said...

What does that mean though?

V said...

Love is beyond thoughts, words, and the physical.
It is not self-seeking. It is giving and forgiving.

Leila said...

This is NOTHING to do with LOVE!!!

V said...

It is more than LOVE!!! ;)
More than lust and sex.

Anonymous said...

I think V has no idea what's going on here and what your post mean. He just wants to nag on about the things he posts on his blog and I get the idea he is so damn proud of the things he came up with that he wants to share it with everyone, while it absolutely makes no sense. Don't nag on about love so much. Love is just a feeling between two people, don't try to analyse it. It's just there. V, are you so lonely that you try to protect yourself by posting things like that? Leila already said that the whole post has nothing to do with love. Why do you even thin that?

Leila said...

Thanks Val

I hold no hard feelings :)

V said...

Leila, Oh, I see what you mean. My big mistake.
You meant the post was not about love.
I was just trying to tell you what love is. ;) Which is probably not true. Because I'm not sure myself. Maybe love is based on desire and pleasure. Not friendship or goodness.
My apologies!

Anonymous said...

You must listen better to people, V. It makes you annoying if you don't do that (I also read your other comments.) Is your love so bad?

V said...

Actually I was just trying to remind myself what love is not. And what love is. Because I felt so guilty about not having love.
We all make mistakes. And we often fail to think clearly.
But perhaps friendship is love.

V said...

Val, Leila asked me what I meant though. So I explained further. No insults meant.

Anonymous said...

No but you do that more. Just giving your opinion without people asking for it. Nothing to do with insulting. Just wanted to say it.

V said...

Val, it's meant to be a comment. Or comments.
Altho it sounds like an opinion.
That's the reason why I changed most of my blog entries into questions. Because I'm not sure myself.
I need to write longer entries to explain what I mean. It's really not about anybody else but me.
Thanks for the comments.

Anonymous said...

V, you just áre annoying. Accept it.