Yes, of course. Most people want to fall in love, be in love and be loved. But it's not as simple as that. There are dangers. Like repulsion and rejection. Not getting what you want. Not keeping what you have. Attraction is not a choice. It is a game you have play. If you don't know how, you will lose everytime.
Even strong, dominant, and attractive men can become weak in the presence of beauty and quality. Women can become wimpy when rejected. Men and women want the same things. More or less. Don't be afraid to say no to love. Don't sell yourself. Don't chase. Don't be cheap. Play hard to get. You are the catch. Etc, etc, etc.
oh no no no Laila, i prefer to walk. i spend most of my time trekking in forests, i walk as slow as i can. three months ago an elephat came charging at me. i just couldn't run. i wanted to run but my feet could not move. Luckily the elephant stopped and walked away. Good thing that i did not run.
Love just happens Laila, but expectations let us down. Loving makes me rich, though i am broke all the time.
How can you be so sure that I can? If falling in love would be just a button to push, everybody in the world would be pounding that button 'till their hands would bleed, but - well sometimes, there's just the charm of the bottle of whisky and not letting any kind of feeling take over completely. (Yes, 't has it's own particular charm.)
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Yes, of course.
Most people want to fall in love, be in love and be loved.
But it's not as simple as that.
There are dangers. Like repulsion and rejection. Not getting what you want. Not keeping what you have.
Attraction is not a choice.
It is a game you have play.
If you don't know how, you will lose everytime.
Even strong, dominant, and attractive men can become weak in the presence of beauty and quality.
Women can become wimpy when rejected.
Men and women want the same things. More or less.
Don't be afraid to say no to love. Don't sell yourself. Don't chase. Don't be cheap. Play hard to get.
You are the catch.
Etc, etc, etc.
Unless you love being in roller-coasters. Most of us do. But it's not always fun.
oh no no no Laila, i prefer to walk. i spend most of my time trekking in forests, i walk as slow as i can. three months ago an elephat came charging at me. i just couldn't run. i wanted to run but my feet could not move. Luckily the elephant stopped and walked away. Good thing that i did not run.
Love just happens Laila, but expectations let us down. Loving makes me rich, though i am broke all the time.
How can you be so sure that I can? If falling in love would be just a button to push, everybody in the world would be pounding that button 'till their hands would bleed, but - well sometimes, there's just the charm of the bottle of whisky and not letting any kind of feeling take over completely.
(Yes, 't has it's own particular charm.)
Siegfried - But I always get what I want..!
Rauf - I must agree that expectations let us down
Jeeps - I dunno, love comes with its own problems, every up has a down..
Leila,
I want more and more and more...!
;>)
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